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Early Childhood Special Education

Children learn many fundamental social skills before they enter kindergarten. Before the age of five society expects young children to be able to interact with others, play cooperatively, initiate and maintain conversations and use manners at appropriate times to name a few. Children learn these things without formal social skill instruction. As with most learning in the preschool years, children learn social skills in naturally occurring situations during routine parts of their day. Young children learn almost everything through their own personal research experiments motivated by their curiosity and self expression. These experiments are expressions of the child's urge to understand how the world works and how he/she fits into it. Adults call these natural learning experiences play. Play is a self motivated creative exploration of the child's physical and social world, which is open ended and subject to revision by the child or outside forces.

Because young children learn best through their own play experiences, the role of the Early Childhood teacher is different than that of teachers of older children. Whereas older children have had enough life experiences to be able to conceptualize and internalize more abstract knowledge, younger children need more concrete experiences to help them internalize and retain knowledge. Thus, the teacher of young children must be more of a facilitator of experiences, rather than a teller of information. The Early Childhood teacher must observe a child to see what he knows, and arrange the environment so that a situation may occur in a child's day which will challenge him/her to grow and learn.

This philosophy of developmentally appropriate practice is applicable when teaching young children of all ability levels. In Show Me How II, (Goff, 1991), the Missouri Department of Elementary and Secondary Education's program guidelines for Early Childhood Special Education, the authors state that:

When working with young children with disabilities, the instructional strategies and curricular focus must address the areas of need for those children. However, this can occur within a broad context of appropriate learning environments for young children, whether or not they have special needs. The concept of the whole child must be kept in mind. An over-emphasis of isolated skill development is inappropriate. Enhancement of functional skills and social competence needs to be addressed through the learning environment. To the extent possible activities should occur within their natural context. Teachers should capitalize on naturally occurring routines (such as snack, outdoor play, etc.) and events in the classroom to teach developmentally appropriate skills as well as identified IEP goals and objectives (Goff, 1991).

Goff states that research indicates that most developmentally delayed children have greater difficulty in interactive play and have an absence of peer related social competence. Additionally, these children are frequently placed in homogeneous groupings and have few appropriate peer models (Goff 1991). She strongly suggests that children with disabilities and non-disabled peers integrate in the classroom, as well as in the community. She feels that the role of the teacher as the facilitator of social interaction is especially important when integrating children with moderate and severe disabilities.

Preschool children learn social skills in an atmosphere of structured and unstructured play. The teacher must create an environment that supports the taking of risks and guarantees safety. Young children often initiate small group activities with play equipment. Dramatic play, for example, frequently involves at least two children. Social interaction opportunities will also occur during teacher directed activities when the teacher allows children to talk and problem-solve together. Social interaction may be enhanced by including activities throughout the day that bring the children into close proximity with one another, by including play equipment that requires more than one child, and by organizing play tasks that require the selection of partners. Play activities can be planned to require reciprocity and equality of skills....

Language/communication is the essential core of social interactions. All three basic functions of language (communication, expression and reasoning) are enhanced when young children converse with one another. Classrooms that foster peer interaction incorporate periods of adult silence and observation mixed with needed guidance. This orientation which values silence and observation is not a "hands off" approach. Rather, the teacher actively guides the children through subtle and necessary intervention. Adults influence the environment by determining the setting, its design, the objects present, and the social atmosphere (Muller and Bergstrom, 1986). For nondisabled children and the children with disabilities to accept one another, the teacher must set the tone for acceptance (Goff, 1991).

Social Skills, therefore, are best learned in naturalistic settings which foster play interaction between all developmental levels of young children. The teacher's role is to facilitate social interaction skills by designing the environment to promote interaction, encouraging children to converse to each other and guide the children through interactions when necessary by asking questions, modeling feelings and verbal solutions to problems or parallel talking if appropriate.
The Early Childhood Special Education Program of the Special District recognizes and encourages the use of developmentally appropriate practices. These practices and philosophy include the following principles:

-Children learn through active involvement and engagement with materials and people in their environment;
-Young children learn from whole to part;
-Young children feel more secure and operate more independently when provided with a consistent routine;
-Children choose what interests them. It is our aim to encourage child initiations and remain sensitive and responsive to facilitate their learning

In order to incorporate these goals and principles into the philosophy of early childhood special education, we support and promote an implementation model that is collaborative among disciplines to facilitate growth and development. It is through this collaborative effort that we can provide appropriate experiences to promote learning in an integrated manner and uphold the key principles of learning for young children.


Goff, Paula. Show Me How II; Planning and Implementing Early Childhood Special Education Programs. Missouri Department of Elementary and Secondary Education, 1991, (p.11-17).

Mueller, E. and Bergstrom, J. (1985). Fostering Peer Relations in Young Normal and Handicapped Children. In Kathrine Borman (Ed.); The Social Life of Children in a Changing Society. (p. 191-192).

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Learning Objectives: Early Childhood Social Skills

General Teaching Strategies:

1) Organize the environment

a) Observe the child and determine the appropriate level of play and interaction.
b) Provide new information that is contextually relevant if necessary.
c) Maintain the topic so that new actions/communications logically extend previous acts.
d) Provide opportunities for the child to interact.

2) Initiating and refining social skills/communications

a) Observe the interaction initiated by the child.
b) Interpret the interaction as a contextually appropriate request, command, protest, greeting, etc.
c) Elaborate on the child's interaction, modeling expanded and extended actions/utterances.
d) Use scaffolding strategies to assist the child's interactions such as:

- prompts
- questions
- new information
- restatements
- close procedures
- gestures and pantomines

Learning Environment:

Each child is encouraged to structure his/her own thinking to gain mastery over his/her social relationships through a variety of methods. These include observing, discovering, questioning, problem solving and sharing activities. Learning activities must be provided within a natural context so that children can easily understand the appropriate social skills to use in the appropriate setting.

The following are suggested strategies for promoting several individual social skills.

Skill: Sharing
Teaching Strategies:

• Set up the environment so that children must work cooperatively on a joint project (block building, parachute play, table games, etc.). Encourage children to play together.
• If a child wants to play with another child's toy but uses socially unacceptable means to get it, model the correct language such as "David, ask Mark if you can play with his toy when he is finished." Follow up to make sure the toy is given to the asker.
• If a child is unwilling to share, children may want to find a mutually agreeable solution, or the teacher may want to use a time limit for turn taking.

Skill: Dealing With Frustration
Teaching Strategies:

• Use in class observation and parent reports to determine areas which may be frustrating for the child.
• Complete a task analysis for the area of frustration to pinpoint any deficits impeding success.• Through play and the environment, teacher structure opportunities for success in smaller units.
• Provide a model or hand- on- hand assistance.
• Provide an alternative choice for the activity.
• Check for physical limitations which impede success, for example gross and fine motor deficits, visual impairments, etc.
• Assist the child in verbally labelling feelings (scared, afraid, feel that something is too hard, etc.)
• Remind the child of success previously achieved.
• Use the child's communication system, ( signing, verbal communication board) to facilitate the child's asking for help.
• Teach children to use appropriate communication rather than negative behavior.
• Discuss the child's frustration with parents and possibly assist in structuring appropriate expectations for the home setting.

Skill: Conflict Resolution
Teaching Strategies:

• If feasible, have children decide on classroom rules and post them. Teacher may decide on, explain and post rules if necessary.
• Help children learn self control and appropriate ways to express their feelings by:

-recognizing and stating children's feelings ("I see that you are angry").
-stating or clarifying the problem ("It makes you mad when Jane takes your toy").
-helping the child to become aware of others feelings ("Jane thought you had that toy too long").
-helping the children develop problem solving skills ("Jane wants a turn with that toy, too. What do you think you could do so you both can have a turn?. . . Can you think of a way that you can both play with the toy? . . . What if each of you had a turn for five minutes?").
-teach children to use words rather than acting out feelings when there is a conflict ("Tell Jane how you feel about her taking your toy." Or "Tell her you don't like it when she takes your things." or use "stop" or "no" sign for the nonverbal child).

• Encourage children to work out their own problems whenever possible. When this isn't working some children like to use the "Class Meeting" strategy. When there is a conflict the teacher calls the class together and requests solutions to the conflicting children's problems. Children discuss the solutions until one is agreed upon by the majority of the class.
• Some teachers use the "Peace Table" method. Conflicting children must sit at a peace table until they can agree to a solution to their problem.
• Remember, it takes maturity to demonstrate an understanding and consideration for others. Maturity is not something most preschool children are known to possess.

Skill: Negotiating Differences
Teaching Strategies:

• Plan a project, such as block building or mural painting which involves several children with a shared goal. Generally, as children will have different ideas on how to attain that goal they must negotiate and compromise so that the goal may be achieved. Make sure that children can finish the project by themselves, without adult help. Children also need to have a finished product visible, rather than something abstract.
• The role of the teacher during negotiations is to help children focus on the goal by restating and clarifying children's solutions to the problems. For example, if two children are building a garage out of blocks the teacher might say "I see John is making the building two blocks high on his side, so his truck will fit into it." Jane may then tame her side two blocks high, or suggest another solution how to fit John's truck into the garage. Teachers should avoid suggesting solutions to problems, rather by using prompts, questions, restatements or providing new information she should encourage the children to negotiate their own differences.
• Opportunities for cooperative problem solving occur throughout the day in free choice activities such as table games, physical knowledge experiments or block building, or open ended projects such as dramatic play, making up a new game or spontaneous art projects.

Skill: Predicting Consequences
Teaching Strategies:

• As young children gain experiences in the world they begin to act with a purpose in mind. Through repeated actions on their part, children receive a reaction. The key to a young child being able to predict a social consequence is the consistency and frequency of the response. For example, if a teacher wants a child to know that she will receive a greeting if she first gives a greeting, the teacher must always be consistent in returning greetings to the child at appropriate times. Situations where preschool children can be trained to predict social consequences happen innumerable times during the day.

Skill: Introducing Yourself
Teaching Strategies:

• Opportunities arise for the teacher to model and teach introduction skills at naturally occurring times, such as when a visitor comes to class, or during community access activities. Other ways to promote knowledge of this skill would be to put several telephones in the dramatic play area and encourage children to phone each other. Children also enjoy identifying themselves and listening to their voices on a tape recorder. Doll and puppet play time is a good time to encourage and model introductions.

Skill: Asking for Help.
Teaching Strategies:

• Organize the environment so that the child will need another person to help him complete a task (getting dressed, clean up, etc.). As the need arises the teacher may prompt students by asking, "Do you think this is too hard for you to do? How could you get this done faster? Do you want to ask for help?" Model correct language if necessary.

Skill: Interrupting Appropriately
Teaching Strategies:

• As the situation arises in the classroom the teacher can help the student by not giving eye contact or ignoring a child who is inappropriately interrupting. When the time is appropriate the teacher can direct her attention to the child's needs. At this point the teacher may wish to recognize and state the child's feelings, "I know you wanted to talk to me"; state her feelings, "It is hard for me to listen to you when I am talking to someone else"; state her wishes for his behavior, "I would like you to wait until I'm done talking to Jim next time so that I can listen to you, unless it is very important", or the teacher may ask him to state his need, "What would you like to tell me?"
• If a child needs help interrupting, the teacher can give eye contact at the appropriate time. If this is not enough, she can use scaffolding strategies to assist the child such as prompts, questions, adding new information, or using gestures or pantomines. For children who are able to generalize situations, puppetry could be used as a way to model the process.

Skill: Dealing With Fear
Teaching Strategies:

• Teaching Strategies: Teachers need to identify fears in young children by observation, child or parent report. Teachers can desensitize fears using a variety of techniques. For example, if a child has a fear of Santa Claus, a teacher may want to read Santa stories, being in a Santa suit for which children can try on, and roleplay visiting Santa, using a familiar adult as Santa.
• Fear of the dark may require a slow progression of light dimming over a period of several weeks. Adults need to recognize childrens right to be fearful, and help the child verbalize his/her fears.

Skill: Showing Affection
Teaching Strategies:

• Teaching Strategies: During the preschool years, young children are often encouraged
to hug or kiss relative strangers because it is "cute." However, as some children with developmental disabilities grow older, it is difficult for them to unlearn this behavior
and it ceases to remain socially appropriate. Therefore, it is especially important to help
young children know when and with whom to show affection. This can generally be done in everyday situations. Teachers can encourage children to give parents a hug when they leave the classroom, model waving goodbye to the bus driver, or modeling smiling and greeting friends. Use of puppetry or doll play may help some children internalize this concept.
• Teachers need to discuss with parents what is socially acceptable behavior in the child's
family, and help parents understand why they are teaching specific behaviors at school.

Skill: Turn Taking
Teaching Strategies:

• Strategies: Set up a high interest activity that involves steps to complete such as a cooking project, board game, or shopkeeper/customer dramatic play. Make sure there are just two or three children involved at first, so participants don't have to wait long for a turn. The teacher may want to suggest who goes first, second and third, then ask the children to remember the order for their second turn. As a follow-up, the teacher may want to discuss with children why it is important to take turns, citing an example of a child who's turn was skipped, and how they felt.

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Introduction and Philosophy

How to Use this Guide

Early Childhood Special
Education

Lesson Design

Skills Index

Age-Appropriate Activities

Roleplay Rating Sheet

Homework Sheets

Surveys

Progress Reports

Cross Reference - Drug-Free
Schools Curriculum

Resources & References

Acknowledgements