Initial Social Skills

Sample Age-appropriate Lesson - Primary

 

Level: Primary

Skill: Share

Goal: To improve initial social skills

Objective(s):

1. The student will demonstrate willingness to share time and materials with others.
2. The student will demonstrate use of the process steps for sharing.

Process Steps:

1. Decide if you want to share something.
2. Decide whom you want to share with.
3. Choose a good time and place.
4. Offer to share in a friendly and sincere way. (McGinnis & Goldstein, 1984 p. 133)

Advance Organizer

Teacher brings in enough cookies for half of the class.

Gain attention:
"Class, I have five cookies for you but there are ten children in class today."

"What should we do?" (elicit student responses)

"Yes, very good. We should share them."

Rationale:
"Why should we share them?" (elicit student responses)

"Where and when should we share with others?" (elicit student responses)

Review:
"Do you remember our discussion yesterday on sharing and the steps we use to share?" (elicit student responses)

"What were the steps?" (elicit student responses)

State goal of lesson:
"Today, I will show you how to use the steps. I will think aloud so you will know what is going on in my head. I will do this so you know what you should be thinking while you are using the process steps for sharing."

State expectations:
"I want you to watch carefully, because tomorrow it will be your turn to practice using these steps for sharing."
"Are there any questions?"

Model

Set the stage:
"I am at the neighborhood pool. My parents sent my favorite snack with me. One of my friends is at the pool. He did not bring a snack with him, and he left his money at home." The teacher selects a qualified student or a para-educator to co-act with her. The co-actor will play the part of the friend.

Teacher: Come on Johnny, I'm hungry. Let's go have our snack now.

Johnny: I forgot to bring by snack money with me.

Teacher: (Step out of role, place finger to head to indicate "think aloud")

Think aloud & Problem Solve:
Oh, Johnny doesn't have anything. I'm very hungry and mom packed my favorite snack.

Process Step 1. Decide if you want to share something.
2. Decide whom you want to share with.

Think aloud & Problem Solve:
Do I want to share it with him? He is my friend. He would keep me company at the snack area. I wouldn't starve if I shared it with him. OK, I'll share it with him and he will be glad.

Process Step 3. Choose a good time and place.

Think aloud & Problem Solve:
We'll go now since I'm hungry and we have already started talking about it.

Process Step 4. Offer to share in a friendly and sincere way.

Teacher: Johnny, I have a snack that my mom packed for me. Would you like to share it with me?

Johnny: That would be great. Thanks!

Think aloud & Self Monitor:
I feel good about this and I did a great job using my process steps for sharing. I'll have to tell Ms. Jones on Monday.

Post Organizer

"How did I do using the process steps?" (elicit student responses)

"Why did I point to my head?" (elicit student responses)

"Yes, very good. I was thinking aloud."

Review the process steps:
"Let's review the process steps for sharing. The first step is . . . (elicit student responses)? The second step is . . ." (elicit student responses) etc.

Personalize:
"Where and when might you use these steps for sharing this weekend?" (elicit student responses)

Preview future lesson:
"Tomorrow it will be your turn to practice these steps. We will role-play with partners."
"Are there any questions?"

"You may now share the cookies!"

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Social Skills Curriculum Guide, 1992
Special School District of St. Louis County